Why does it have to be so hard to be friends with someone, after you've had a sexual relationship with them? It's clear that relationship isn't working, but yet I can't seem to let it go and just be friends. Everything that I loved about that person is GONE, our sex that was once amazing is now just sex, and when I see this person it's not as exciting as it used to be. In fact, I've even met other men that appeal to me. I need a solution to this problem- how can I put this person into a friendship category?